Women’s News: How A Married Man’s Friendships With Single Women Become Affairs

Women’s News: How A Married Man’s Friendships With Single Women Become Affairs

A Message From The Creator

A Message From The Creator

Women & Politics: Hillary Clinton Doesn’t Care About 2016 Speculation — She Just Whips Her Hair Back And Forth

Women & Politics: Hillary Clinton Doesn’t Care About 2016 Speculation — She Just Whips Her Hair Back And Forth

Women & Politics: Hillary Clinton Doesn’t Care About 2016 Speculation — She Just Whips Her Hair Back And Forth

Hillary Clinton Gives Speech On American Leadership On Her Last Day In Office

Hillary Clinton generally remains cool, calm and collected. Rumor has it that shenever even sweats. Even as will-she-or-won’t-she speculation over her potential 2016 presidential run rages, we think that Hillz is probably taking it all in stride.

A June 2012 photo of Hillary Clinton first made us think of a certain Willow Smith line. And this photo of Hillz taken during her last speech as secretary of state at the end of January does the same. We imagine that as countless media outlets pen stories about her, she’s probably just whipping her hair and getting on with things.

LOOK: Hillary Whips Her Hair (Again)

Read More:  http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/04/01/hillary-clinton-whips-her-hair-back-and-forth_n_2993045.html?utm_hp_ref=women&ir=Women

A Message From The Creator

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Women’s News: How A Married Man’s Friendships With Single Women Become Affairs

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David Wygant

Dating and relationship coach, author

In my 15 years of coaching, women have come to me over and over again with the same problem: falling for a married man.

The stories always begin the same way: “There’s this guy… he’s soo great! We connect in every way and he makes my heart flutter like a schoolgirl. I know, I know… he’s married. But we’ve only gone on a couple of innocent dates…” Then, the guy makes his move.

From the beginning, he just tells you what a great friend you are and he tells you how nice it is to finally have someone he can talk to. You eat it up, thinking to yourself, Yes, talking. That’s all we’re doing… But then he finally does what he’s wanted to do for a long while — he makes his move.

Of course, he springs it upon you ever so slyly, making you feel really special, making you feel unique. He’ll say things like, “Wow, my wife just doesn’t listen to me like you listen to me,” or, “She just doesn’t understand me. And it’s really nice to be with a woman that does.”

He will tell you this over a glass of Tempranillo, as he looks longingly into your eyes, sweetly brushing a stray hair from your face. It’s kryptonite for the nurturing woman.

And sure, on the surface he looks like the All-American dad; on the surface, he looks like a great husband; on the surface, he tells everybody that it’s OK that his marriage isn’t passionate — he’s grown so much as an individual that he doesn’t need wild, fulfilling sex anymore.

He’d rather have somebody that would be a great mother than someone with great passion because ‘passion dies.’

He’s convinced himself of this.

And it’s sad, because he’s convinced himself that he’s in a relationship that he wants.

But he’s not. He’s sad, he’s lonely, and he sees you as an opportunity for escape.

So, how do you spot this guy right from the beginning? Well, he’s usually the guy you meet who immediately wants to be your “friend.” Yet, these men aren’t just friends with women. They’re only friends with women they’re attracted to. Because that’s how it starts — with a mental affair. He’ll frame your interaction as business, like, “Hey, let’s have a business dinner,” or “Hey, let’s grab a drink after work.” He’ll flirt with you in ways that seem all so innocent. But let me tell you something: It’s not. Because this so-called “happily married man” is not happy.

He’s going to flirt with you innocently. He’s going to send you little texts to tell you that he read an article or saw something that reminded him of you, and it’s all going to seem so friendship-y, almost like you met a good female friend.

But in reality, he’s planting the seed for your future affair.

He’ll even tell his wife about the great friendship the two of you have. He’ll bring it out in the open, because he doesn’t want to believe that he is actually going to cheat.

I’ve met a lot of these guys. They talk such a good game, but in reality, they’re living a compromised life. They wanted something from life but never truly believed that they could have everything. And now they find themselves “stuck” in a situation that’s displeasing and less than what they know is possible.

Beware. Never, ever get influenced by their flattery. They’re not going to leave their wives. They’re looking for an affair, whether it is mental, emotional, physical or all three. Be aware eware of these warning signs.

Ask yourself what it is that you want, and why you’re drawn to these men that you can’t have. Maybe there is a tiny bit of loneliness and lack of fulfillment within you, and that is attracting men in similar situations, many of them married.

Look at the people who are coming into your life as signposts for what’s going on inside of you. If you find yourself becoming excited by the overly-friendly man in the wedding ring — consider that you may have some internal issues to work out.

And then run… preferably in the direction of available men not hampered down by preexisting relationships.

Read More: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/david-wygant/married-man-single-women-turn-into-affairs_b_2979248.html?utm_hp_ref=women&ir=Women

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